Seiously....Almost 2 months since I last blogged!

Well it has still been busy...

Once again I apologize for my lack of postings of late...
After my last class I have been busy...
I had to read four books for my maymester class and then had 2 papers due and went to maymester two weeks ago...but for most people they do not know that my school work has been in third or fourth in the priority list and somehow I've maintained a 3.7 GPA in grad school.
For me, I've tried to always keep my wife and my daughter my first priority, even though at times it has been tough with us having crazy schedules and only seeing each other at night for the past couple months.  But that is something I will never change.  I will always have my family as my priority.
I've also kept my walk with God up there with my family.  I read the Bible daily, but I also read for fun every day.  I love to read.  I read at least a book a week, but I also read tweets and blogs daily to see what is going on in the world of ministry.  I do this because I know that there is always a better idea, a better game, a better talk series, a better way of being in ministry.  And I will never give that up.  I always want to be on my "A" game as I daily prepare for ministry.
My Ministry is also a huge priority in my life...#1 its been my calling since I was 16 and #2 it pays the bills.  If you look at my work schedule for the past month, I have been in the office getting ready for summer, and also evaluating this year in ministry.   There are things I need to change, but I have also seen how I've changed so much in the last year.  I have turned around communications; I've been a lot better at returning emails, phone calls, txt messages, and requests compared to a year ago.  I have changed several things in our ministry.  I feel that I have gone above what I was asked to improve on.  But I won't settle on that.  I gave a survey out this past week and I'm look at ways to improve things as I start getting ready for the fall.  I'm working on changing my format on Sunday nights.  I'm looking at putting a few things on the shelf for a while.  I'm working on getting more volunteers to help in different areas.  I'm looking at changing how our volunteers do some things. I'm already in the process of changing student leadership.  I have been putting a lot of time into this.  Because I know that summer flies by.  I'm always trying to improve things.

Things have been busy, but busy for the better.  Now that school is winding down I'll have some time for myself and family and will start getting to bed early again instead of spending most of my nights reading and writing.   I know my wife is happy to see this chapter complete and have more down time with me in the evenings.

Two papers to turn in...and a weeklong Maymester and this chapter is complete

Hard to believe that two and a half years ago, that I started grad school here at Pfeiffer University.  It was a month after my brother passed away.  I was in a place that was dark and confusing.  I had no clue what was going on.   On Sunday January 20th, 2008, my church hosted Christian artist Ed Kilbourne.   After the concert Jessica and I were over at the merchandise table buying a CD when Ed's wife Kathleen, asked me when I was going to work on my masters degree.  She had sent me several emails and mailed me some information during the past year.   I told her I wasn't sure, that we had a lot going on.  She asked me if I was still planning on continuing my United Methodist Deacon candidacy process...and I said, "one day..."  Kathleen then responded with well tomorrow you'll start.  Just Call me in the morning and class starts at 2PM.

And my Grad school days begun....

At first it was a huge adjustment.  It had been several years since I wrote anything having to use MLA formatting!   I had to also readjust my church schedule.   I had to plan ahead more so I could fit in reading, projects, and papers.   Two semesters I took the max load of classes.  I wanted to be finished.

I look back at my two and half years of graduate studies and seminary work and its hard to believe it over.  Its hard to believe that after I turn in my final two papers and go to the main campus for a week for my Evangelism class through Wesley Seminary that this chapter is over in my life.  I will have a Masters in Christian Education, United Methodist Certifications in Youth Ministry and Christian Education, and will have all more courses complete for the Deacon process to be ordained in the United Methodist Church.

Besides all these things I have earned...I found a great group of friends in ministry.   My classmates were the ones that helped me going through the tough times in my journey.   They helped me as I was dealing with the death of my brother.  They helped me as we dealt with Jessica's miscarriage.   They were my weekly vent and ideas sounding boards.  As I was for them.   I have learned so much from my fellow classmates.  I've learned new ideas to bring back to my student ministry and church.  I have learned from them tips on self care in ministry.   I have learned games, talks, bible studies, sermons, and so much more from these friends.

As I finish my last bit of paper work I want to thank all the professors and classmates for being there for me during the good and the bad.  I know that I have made friends for life.  Thanks!

Beyond our yearbooks

For the third time in my youth ministry career, I'm starting the Doug Field's Series "Beyond the Yearbook" tonight.  It is probably my favorite series for youth ministry that I've ever done.  In this series for the next three weeks we’re going to talk about God wants you to be a part of His family.  And not only that but God wants you to be a friend of His and to view Him as a friend.  And God wants to be a part of that whole change process where He changes you to be more like Him.  That’s what we’re going to talk about.

Its been thirteen years since I got my last yearbook.  From time to time I go back and look at the silly comments like, "See you next Fall", "Hope you have a great summer", "It was fun having class with you"....and those people who wrote them are generally the friends I have on facebook that I only hear from when it's my birthday...But then there are the yearbook notes that were a paragraph or a whole page long.  And those are the friends I still keep in touch with today.  Some ever day....Others every couple months we'll chat, text, email, or talk on the phone.  

But that's just how a lot of us treat God when we were in High School.  Either we have a face value friendship that we say, "See you next Sunday", "Enjoyed having worship today with you", "See you when I have a family".   Or we talk to him everyday through prayer, worship, fellowship.

So looking back at your yearbooks....who do you still keep in contact with?   Looking back at God's yearbook....What is your relationship with Him today? Just a facebook friend....or a true meaningful relationship?

How we livin'?

"Yet when those outside the church see no difference in our lives, they begin to question our integrity, our sanity, or even worse...our God."- Francis Chan












One of the biggest complaints I have gotten from students over my thirteen years of ministry from students is that they do not like it when their peers do not act like Christians outside the church.  I hear it at least once a month.   They think that some of their peers are nothing but a joke.  They act like Christians on Sundays by singing the songs, giving the correct answers, and looking like they have it all together.  Then when they get home hit facebook to update their status....the other side happens.  And for some they wait for Monday morning to act like their "real selves".


So what?  What's the big deal?  We can't expect students to make a total change and be Christian all the time can we?   Why is there no difference in their lives after God does something big to them?  Why do their peers see that they are living two lives?  Why do the students really not care that people see the two sides of them?


Well its just not the students!  It is many people in the church today and includes their parents.  No too many of us take our lives being changed seriously.   It hurts me to see students and friends who have had a major change in their life from God, just walk away acting like nothing has happened.

But I love to see when people shine their light and show everyone how God is working in their lives.   There are several of my friends and high school friends who were far from God, but sometime lately they have seen the light and are shining theirs for the world to see!

So what are we waiting for?


If we truly open our hearts, our minds, and let the Holy Spirit move in our lives and not worry about what others think, then we can help change the world.   We can see many lives changed.   If not...we are living the lives that God has called us to.  He has called us to make disciples of all nations.  He wants us to live life to the fullest.   If we let go and LET GOD...Big things will happen in our lives and to those around us.  


Ephesians 4:1  ..."I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received"


Take a moment today and read the entire chapter of Ephesians 4....It is one my favorite chapters in the Bible!